Doms Have Always Been Sexy!

It took years for me to decide what I liked and wanted Sexually. I had lot of responsibility put on me at a young age. When looking for a partner I wanted someone who could lighten that load. Someone that could give me some sort of balance. I had spent so much time as the leader who took care of all the problems that I wanted someone that would make the decisions at home.
Movies also played a part in my desire’s. John Wayne was the epitome of what a man should be. He was tall, strong, handsome and in charge. In the movie McClintoc the scene of him chasing his wife to give her a deserved spanking was not only amusing it was sexy. In those days it was sexy. In those days it wasn’t unusual for men to express their dominance in such a way. Televisions “I Love Lucy” had more than one episode ending with a spanking. Elvis Presley also earned some respect in the movie “Blue Hawaii” after spanking one of the young women that had gone out of her way to cause trouble.
My point is that in that era it was expected and sexy for a man to seize control by force at times. And the line between abuse and spanking was not a thin one at all.
It is common that Alpha males sometimes seek a woman to dominate them. It is a way to relieve the tension that builds inside after spending so much time carrying the weight of the world on their shoulders. I admit I know little of that part of the lifestyle but I’m learning more and more.
Sex has often been an outlet for stress and BDSM is an extension of that stress relief. Some will always consider it as aberrant sexual behavior but as long as both parties are consenting adults and agree to limits there is nothing aberrant about it. Both the Dom and sub want the arrangement and enjoy their parts. That is NOT abuse.
Now I have a question for you. When did you first realize that you were attracted to the BDSM lifestyle?

My Stories and the Muse that Writes Them.

I’ve been writing as long as I can remember and making up stories long before I knew how to write them down. Some of these early stories got me into a lot of trouble and on some occasions got me out of trouble as well.

I always enjoyed seeing the reactions of my few friends that I allowed to read my stories. It made me feel good to see them laugh at something my main character said, or cry when something unforeseen happened to a character that they had grown to care about. That has stuck with me. Although for many years I didn’t have the time to write stories anymore, I still had characters and ideas for stories come to mind. I wrote some of the ideas down and others I decided to forget about but I always hoped that one day I would have the chance to write and bring some of those characters to life.

I admit, I never expected to be writing anything romance related since I love to read fantasy, science fiction, horror and adventure. However when my muse decided it was time to write she already had the story brewing and I had no idea where she planned to take me. I felt a little like Bilbo Baggins taking that first step out onto the road and being swept away. I know these stories will not be acceptable for some people and that others may even be offended by them and that is okay. After all no one can force you to buy or read a story that doesn’t interest you. For the rest of you, those with a sense of curiosity about things you never dared to try, or those that have and enjoy sharing an experience with characters you like and that may even seem familiar. I hope you will open your hearts and minds to the stories that swept me away and the characters that I still want to invite to the holidays.

I have a few Novels in various stages of preparedness and a Novella will soon be going to an editor. I will keep you all apprised of my progress and hopefully someday in the near future I will have an announcement for a release date on one (or more) of these stories. Until then I will share some of the experiences that led me to create the characters I write about. And the places that they take us all as we travel the road together.